IF, IF ONLY & WHAT IF

Often we found these words hang in our thoughts:
if........ if only i have..... what if.........

This brought back what I have read in "FIFTH MOUNTAIN"

"everything that could have happened but did not is carried away with the wind and leaves no trace," said the shepherd. "Life is made of our attitudes. And there are certain things that the gods oblige us to live through. Their reason for this does not matter, and there is no action we can take to make them pass us by."


Often when choose one path.... we will often start to wonder what if i took the other one? what if i choose the other option........ what if.....

How could we know that the other path is easier? What then determine its easy or hard? Other people point of view? or our own perspective?

There is no wrong or right choice. Each different choice has a different lesson to learn. May be they leads to the same destination. Or they may leads to a different destination. The ending doesn’t matter. What its matter is that we grow as we walk the path of our choice.

"There is no tragedy, only the unavoidable. Everything hath its reason for being: thou needest only distinguish what is temporary from what is lasting."

"What is temporary?"
The unavoidable."

"And what is lasting?"
"The lessons of the unavoidable."