MOTHERHOOD

After reading [Facing every Mum's Fears] I have gain some insight to motherhood. I would strongly recommend this book.

We cannot image how much a mother face. How much fears and pain she has hold inside her. How much she has suffered under the hand of her children... ...

1) U will often heard a mum said this: "Everything is ok. Mum is here"
The superwoman mother. They have to smooth EVERY ostacles and barrier in their children life.

2) A mum fear for their child safety.
what happen if they get hurts? What happen if something happen to them? How am I going to life on? Why are they so not home yet? Are the friends bad companies?

3) A mum fear that the child will take up the her flaws.
when this fear 'concretise', the mum will turn hash on her child. For she fear they will follow her in her footstep.

4) A mum fear that she does not live up to her child expectation.
" I HATE U MUM", this 4 words can bring a mum to the brin of depression.

..... etc.

Only a mother will understand each other. Although father and mother may have similiar roles in parenting/raising the child. Netherless, their roles are nv the same and nv equal.

Motherhood is like walking on a high wire. U cling onto the balancing pole with you both hands....and u walk on the ultra THIN wire.... if u dont move... U going to fall... the only way for you to balance is to move on....

Up there, they are helpless. They do not have anyone to support them. Their only tool, is the pole. Yet, that long pole, has a weight to it... holding it for long, their arms soon grow tired. BUT, they cannot throw the pole away, for it is the only tool to guide them in balancing.


Not everyone know how to express their emotion. Or even to relate/express it correctly. Some keep them inside and it turns to frastratation. Some dont have the skills of communication, and the expression come out in the form of anger and words that hurts. In the end, they hurts themselves and their child.

Yet, often, the child never know how much a parent face. Till the day, they themselves has become parent. When they look back, finally they understood their mum behavior.

A father will never understand a mum fears. Just like a guy will never understand a gal mind. Really thanks God, for the insight the book has given me. And the 3 wonderful 'children' that I play motherhood on. What heavy burden a mum carried!


Today, I just wanted to pray for all the mothers out that. Let them feel the love of their children and their load will be lighten by the grace of the Lord. Amen.