To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.

- Bertrand Russell. English Logician and Philosopher 1872-1970

All man love fear. We hold onto fear like some precious gem. We are afraid to face them. Afraid to lost them. Afraid to let go.

Fear:
Fear of failure
Fear of lost of love ones
Fear of Rejection
Fear of the unknown
Fear of death

etc etc
We all have fear of some form or another. It take strength and pain to confront our fear.
Only when we experience enough pain; pain that hurt sooo much. Then only we no longer fear. For after the pain, we found strength. The strength to change our current state. The strength to stand up on our feet. The strength to a total new believeth; a total new me.